Emotions are not taught intentionally often. The ‘rule’ book does tend to promote action over feeling which means we can keep our inner most self hidden. Pedals & Pedometer Steps has written about the benefit of watching outstanding performers (athletes, dancers, The Biggest Losers) closely to learn about handling emotions positively, and for success. This is important for those introducing exercise, weight loss or pedometer steps counting, as tiring, injuring and depleting the body, has an emotional affect.
Everyday people must cope with this on top of their job, family commitments and other frailties. If your life is independent and successful then you may find that a period of extra commitment does not create a strain on your existing arrangements. One also suspects that you may already be on top of your fitness, health and well being also.
Many are not in that situation. Overwhelm in a number of areas may be the catalyst for the over weight lifestyle. Someone trying to add an exercise program into an over committed life can’t be blamed for wanting it to be fast and easy-and not cost much. These commitments may be for your time or even your emotional energy.
Handling the emotion of the exercise is also about handling the emotion of the lifestyle change. Although most people hope it can be a temporary change it requires a permanent change. That’s why we generally want it to be fast. Like a pill which we take until the problem is healed. With a lifestyle problem the only pill which does work is a belief that changing creates a better lifestyle.
Sometimes it seems better not to know the extent of the changes you will need to make until you are ready for each of them. Then the next step becomes obvious. Trying to rush and anticipate changes to come may rock the boat before you are able to contemplate the change with ease.
Long term weight loss with activity based, diet moderation style programs work effectively with ongoing commitment to this lifestyle which has resulted from the change. A friend was an avid pedometer steps counter and big eater for a small girl, but balanced the two successfully, from her family home and at work. She conscientiously monitored her weight and exercise and any weight change was quickly obliterated. A great success.
Then she got married. Yes the motivation for her intense interest in her waist measurements. She had loved the lifestyle and her fiancee was fully aware of it. He was not a problem. So she moved her home location and travel times increased. Her new family (in laws) had different criteria of behavior (food must be eaten), time away from her husband was questioned.
Again lifestyle change is necessary. This is not a difficult thing to do once you have a basic understanding that it requires a lifestyle plan. With the same dedication she has previously shown, she is now applying herself to making her schedule around the new requirements in such as way as to include activity. The style has to be modified and she is doing it so she can continue enjoying well being within a new lifestyle. The important point is that lifestyles do change many times over a lifetime. While there is a tendency to cling to one which is particularly satisfying it is better too move on. The new lifestyle can be sculptured to be even more satisfying, perhaps in differing ways.
Becoming a pedometer user introduces much more activity into your daily life. This can be tiring. Pedometer steps counting is addictive and it is great to get the target you want. Over time your resilience increases and you can do more without getting over tired. The best way I have found to get through any difficulties with pedometer steps within your normal daily framework is to follow some of these tips:
- If you have made a mistake of some sort, move on. Do not dwell on it. You’ll do better when you can.
- I have benefited most from others’ attitudes and advice more so than instructions and techniques. Getting instruction of pedometer step’s counting, walking or running, is easy on the web. Easy diet advice abounds. It is often the daily advice of what to do when…which is most helpful. Talk to other pedometer steps users.
- Stop and take a breather if it suddenly seems too hard. Think of as many positive reasons for doing it and having fun with it that you can. This is not the time to throw up your hands and say I may as well overeat now. Have a small indulgence then look at Step 1.
As usual Pedals & Pedometer Steps wishes you well on your lifestyle journey.
