While thinking about writing this post of Pedals & Pedometer Steps I re-read the latest edition of The New! Walker recently and it reminded me of the question I once heard someone ask: How did you handle the emotions of the sport?
What a great question. How do you handle the emotions involved when counting pedometer steps or walking for weight loss?
I love listening to sporting greats, and everyday sportsmen and women, because often I learn something valuable about the attitudes which are most helpful to develop when taking on a regimen or training which is pushing physical limits and emotional limits as well. These are my favorite mentors (unofficial mentoring from listening, reading or viewing) even though I am not attempting to succeed as a sports person. Perhaps it’s because they are usually in it for themselves, and then use their success as a catalyst for ‘giving back’ whether through foundations or simply helping out with community events, etc.
Why do I like that? I like the positive inspiration of someone wanting to be involved in something, good at something, or developing a talent or skill.
I also enjoy So You Think You Can Dance once the final twenty have been chosen and start watching from that point in the show.This is then a positive and uplifting opportunity to watch people who excel and see how they handle the ups and downs and physical stresses of doing this. These are great teachers, intentionally or unintentionally.
We can benefit enormously from these unofficial mentors-aspirational figures who inspire by being true to their desires.
The New! Walker makes the point that there are ways to have others involved in your pedometer steps and walking for weight loss program. In fact since this is a lifestyle change it is necessary to find easy ways to integrate others into the llfestyle which supports your continued weight loss.
But…
“This often means that they are not likely to be bosom buddies. They may not have the same politics or worldview. You may not immediately, or ever, want them as close friends. You want the benefit of a joint commitment which you are determined to keep.”
This is where handling the emotions is important. The less emotional investment in the relationships enables more easy commitment to the exercise program. At the same time we want to ensure that all our other relationship needs are also being met, but perhaps separately, at least at first.
A mentor can be simply someone who inspires you, helps or advises you, even if you are not in a personal relationship with them. Even those people who deny having had mentors, probably because of the definition they are using, had them. Simply hearing about the influences on their sporting or other life, reveals that someone has motivated them.
The Susan Boyle story (does anyone not know who Susan Boyle is?) from an unrelated field physically is a lesson in handling the emotions. Her main contribution for most though is as the role model for not giving up, whatever your background or age.
Suggestion: can you name your inspirations for walking and counting pedometer steps?
